Yes, it's a cliché that happyness means different things to different people. A tailwind, a windfall, Wind River Mountains or wind in your sails. But trying to explain or defend your particular brand of happiness to someone else is annoying.
This weekend I was on my fat bike and ran into another rider that I know. Inevitably they always say something like "so...you're on that bike…" Or they ask "how do you like your fat bike?" Well, duh, it's like explaining cold beer on a hot day. It just is.
Perhaps they are jealous....